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Physical appearance certainly plays a role in attraction. In fact, your looks are usually one of the first things a guy notices. But there’s more to attraction than just physical beauty. While every guy’s preferences differ, it's often the small, subtle qualities that make a lasting impression.

If you’ve got great looks and a fit body, you’re bound to catch attention.

But here’s the catch looks might draw someone in for a moment, but what keeps them around is your personality and character. A kind heart and an engaging personality can truly make someone fall for you.

Wondering what guys generally look for in a girlfriend? We’ve got you covered. Here are some of the most common traits men find attractive in a woman:

# A Genuine Smile

Take a scroll through Instagram and you’ll see a lot of model-like pouts and squints. Sure, they look stylish but nothing beats a girl with sparkling eyes and a sincere smile.

Smiling not only makes you look more approachable but also radiates warmth and positive energy. And that’s something everyone, including men, finds irresistible.

That said, don’t force a grin. A natural, joyful smile goes a long way in winning hearts.

# A Good Sense of Humor

No one enjoys being around someone who’s always serious or too tense to laugh. You don’t have to laugh at everything, but being relaxed and playful can be incredibly appealing.

Laughter is one of the easiest ways to connect and build comfort. When you're at ease, he will be too and that creates a beautiful bond.

# Intelligence

While beauty may catch someone’s eye, it’s your mind that holds their attention.

You don’t need to be a genius, but being able to hold a meaningful conversation and share thoughts is essential. Mental connection often referred to as mental attractiveness is something guys truly value in a partner.

Being curious about his interests or learning new things together can also deepen the connection.

# Natural Beauty

Makeup is a wonderful tool to enhance features, but guys also appreciate a woman who’s comfortable in her natural skin.

It’s not about ditching makeup altogether it’s about embracing your natural self and knowing you’re beautiful with or without it. Confidence in your raw beauty is a huge turn-on.

# Honesty

Men seek partners they can trust and open up to. Being truthful even when it’s uncomfortable is essential for a healthy relationship.

You don’t need to overshare or reveal every little detail, but being open about your feelings helps avoid confusion and builds trust. Remember, he’s not a mind reader. Honesty brings clarity and closeness.

# Confidence

Confidence can outshine even the most glamorous outfit. Walk tall, believe in yourself, and own who you are — flaws and all.

When you’re comfortable in your own skin, it shows. And that kind of energy draws people in effortlessly.

# Having a Voice of Your Own

If you constantly defer to him like saying “whatever you want” every time he asks for your opinion it may come off as passive or unsure.

Sharing your views and making choices shows that you’re your own person, and that’s highly attractive. Relationships thrive when both individuals express themselves honestly and respectfully.

# Independence

Men do like to feel needed — but not too needed. Clinginess or excessive dependence can become overwhelming.

Show that you can handle your life, make decisions, and stay grounded on your own. Having your own goals, routines, and relationships (outside of him) adds balance and ease to the relationship.

# A Positive Attitude

Confidence is great, but arrogance? Not so much. Stay grounded. Kindness, compassion, and a positive outlook are traits that men (and everyone, really) value deeply.

If you're affectionate, thoughtful, and considerate, you’ll not only attract the right guy but also build a stronger, more lasting connection.

# Your Scent

A pleasant fragrance can be surprisingly powerful. A subtle whiff of your favorite perfume can make a guy remember you — and miss you.

Avoid overdoing it — just a touch on your neck or wrists is enough to leave a lasting impression.